At the rate these two are going, we won’t be surprised if another little baby Thicke is in the making…

Paula Patton Says “Blurred Lines” Makes Her Want Sex With Robin Thicke

As Robin Thicke’s single “Blurred Lines” featuring T.I. and Pharrell continues to heat up the airwaves, one other person who gets a lil hot and bothered watching the video for the song is Robin’s superbad wifey Paula Patton.

Paula recently stopped by the Chelsea Lately Show and told host Chelsea Handler how seeing the video for the first time made her want the D from her soul-singin’ Mr.

“I love that song.  I don’t know what it is, it just makes you want to dance and party and groove.

I watched that video. I was a little bit jealous, then I wanted to jump his bones. I was like, ‘I want to take you down right now.’ That’s how I know it’s a hit!”

The Hollyweird banger also revealed that she was the one who encouraged her husband to use half nekkid girls for the video. We’re sure it was soooooo hard to convince him.

“It’s funny, he came home and he was like, ‘I gotta be honest with you. Diane Martel, the video director, did an amazing job on it.’”

“She wanted to do a [nekkid] version.’ And so he saw it and he’s like, ‘I don’t know, I’m nervous.’ And we watched it and I thought, ‘It’s amazing.”

“I think it’s beautiful. I like it better than the clothed version. I don’t know what to tell you. You gotta let it out.’”

Paula sounds like a certified freak, even when she’s not slizzard out of her mind. Robin is definitely a lucky man!

Dear Bossip,

I’ve been in love with the same man since September 2010. We met on a deployment.

I lived in North Carolina and he lived in Alabama. He was a gentleman, a dream come true, until we got back to the states. He started hiding our relationship. He let his friends talk greasy about me on Facebook and would not let me meet his mom. Around January/February 2011 I found out the reason that he wouldn’t take me to meet his mom was because his ex lived there. I found this out after she tried to add me on Facebook.

Around this same time I found out that he had given me two STD’s at once. Both curable. I forgave him. He kept lying and only God knows about what else. So, we broke up in May. I moved on with my life. So, in December 2011 he came back to me wanting to get back together. I said yes. January went by smoothly. In February I received an email from a girl that said she was also his woman. She also told me about the baby he had on the way with the one that lived with his mom. I was devastated. He told me that he hadn’t seen or talked to the girl since November (we were both on two separate deployments at this time). He also told me that he had planned on telling me about the baby face to face when we got home.

I was so hurt because at the time the baby was conceived he was still telling me he loved me. It was the same girl that had originally broken us up in the first place. I tried to stomach it for love, but when he took his time getting a DNA test I just couldn’t do it. We broke up in May 2012. Fast forward to May 2013, he emails me to say Happy Birthday and it turns into friendly conversation. He had a girl and I had a man. His girlfriend (the one that told me about the baby) emails me to let me know that they had gotten back together and that I needed to stop talking to her man. This whole time he been telling me how much he loves and misses me, but not once did he say he would leave her for me.

I guess I’m writing to you because I don’t know how to just tell him to leave me alone and stop coming back into my life. Because I feel like he only comes back to figure out if he still has a place in my heart, and to see that if he really did want to come back to me if I would take him back. I love him. I really do. He was my first love. I think about him every day, but I know in my heart that he will never grow up and he will never leave his baby mama alone or take any woman serious. I love him, but I am not in love with him. He emails me and when I email him back 4 to 5 days later, he gets a little attitude. I don’t know how to tell him to leave me alone for good. Whatever I do it turns into an argument. – Want To Move On

Dear Ms. Want To Move On,

I’m sorry, but what is so difficult about telling someone to leave you the hell alone!?! He is only coming back into your life because you allow him to come back in your life. Stop responding to him and he will leave you alone. HELLO! Stop giving him entrée. Stop all communication. Stop answering his emails. Stop answering his texts. Stop every damn thing and he will leave you alone. Damn! It’s that simple.

But, you like this attention. You enjoy him coming back to you in and out of your life. You find it amusing knowing that he is thinking about you. Because as you stated in your letter, you think about him every day. You keep him alive and this drama going on between you and him because you are enjoying his attention. You feel that although he has a woman, and you may have a man, that he is still reaching out to you because there must be something there. There must be some love, some affection, and you get a kick out of knowing he is going behind his woman’s back and telling you things you want to hear. So, be honest and ask yourself why do you feel the need to respond? What are you getting out of it? What do you possibly owe him, and what are you hoping to get out of these exchanges? Yeah, you playing these games with him, so, ma’am, I’m going to need for you to grow the hell up and stop all these shenanigans. Ain’t nobody got time to be playing with you and inflating your self-esteem and ego.

And, ma’am, I want you to be very aware of what I’m about to tell you: He doesn’t love. He doesn’t even like you. You are someone he tolerates and likes dumping his STD’s into. Point blank! The man never apologized to you for giving you two STD’s at the same time. Please tell me what is there to love about him? Please tell me how you can possibly even think this man deserves any of your time, or attention? He gave you two STD’s at the same time. (Uhm, burns much). LOL!

Honey, he never apologized or stood up for you when his friends were talking greasy about you on Facebook. He never even introduced you to his mother. As you’ve stated in your letter, you were a secret that he hid and never admitted to anyone that you were his woman. Which means he was embarrassed and ashamed to call you his woman. And, on top of that, he had his other woman, the one who had his baby, living with his momma, and still dipping up in you because you spread your legs and let him run up in you raw thinking he loved you. HE DIDN’T, DOES NOT, and NEVER WILL!

So, it’s time you stop calling him your first love, and that you have all these feelings for him. This man didn’t have any feelings for you because if he did, then he wouldn’t have put you through all this drama, stress, and emotional, mental, and physical pain he has taken you through. You’re the woman he knows who is naïve enough to let him keep coming and going, and continue to give him some gush-gush and run game on you. When you learn to respect yourself, demand better for yourself, and stop letting men treat you like a doormat, then you can truly get rid of him. Until you can truly and honestly be real with yourself about why you keep letting him come back and forth in your life, and why you feel the need to respond to him when he reaches out to you, then he will keep coming back. So, cut the cord. Drop his a**. And, stop responding to him. If you truly want to get him out of your life, then stop responding to his emails, block his a**, and block his number. As a matter of fact, put DNA next to his name and number (Do Not Answer). Pull yourself together and go live your life. Stop harboring and thinking about him every day. When thoughts of him come up, put on some music, read a book, go jogging, do something to distract the thoughts, and trust me you will eventually not even have a thought or concern about him. – Terrance Dean

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DJ Eque you better get your husband! Questions are being raised about Talib Kweli’s “friendship” with a Miami video model largely thanks to a series of social media posts, cozy looking Instagram pictures and the revelation that he spent her last TWO birthdays with her!

Proud friend? Or a supportive boyfriend?

For those who don’t know, Talib has been married for a number of years to one of the top female deejays in the game, the beautiful DJ Eque.

Sad, because the couple seemed to be doing well after some discord when Talib was allegedly caught creeping before.

If you follow Miami model Aisha Thalia, you’d never know Talib was married, because these two are always together. We just thought it was curious that Eque is never around for these get togethers, even though they’ve been going on for over a year.

Hit the flip for the suspect pics and tell us if you would be concerned if Talib was your hubby! Single ladies, we also have to ask you — how much time would you spend alone with a married man?

The angry bird beef is already brewing….

K.Michelle Slams Erica Mena On Twitter And Admits To Fake Butt

Love & Hip Hop ATL wild child K.Michelle is making her rounds on the promo trail in anticipation of the release of her new album “Rebellious Soul” and on a recent stop by K104 radio station in Dallas, the red-headed songstress reportedly admitted to ‘DeDe in the Morning’ host DeDe McGuire that her ridonkulous rump is faker than a lil bit:

This is no surprise, although we ARE surprised that K actually admitted it.

In related news, filming is just barely underway for the next season of Love & Hip Hop NY, but the much expected angry bird beef between current thirst-bucket Erica Mena and equally hot-headed LHHNY newcomer K.Michelle is already brewing.

Erica took to her Twitter to put K.Michelle on blizzy blast for supposedly mentioning her name while shooting her first scene for LHHNY…..

….and even suggested that K. Michelle left LHH ATL because she was “chased out:”

Of course you know Erica’s bird babble didn’t go unnoticed. Hit the flip to see what K. Michelle had to say in response…..

Will and Jada supposedly aren’t too happy that Jaden is keeping up with the Kardashian-Jenners…

Will Smith And Jada Pinkett Disapprove Of Jaden Dating Kylie Jenner?

There’s been talk of Hollyweirders Will Smith and wife Jada Pinkett disapproving of their son Jaden’s swirly young love affair with fellow teenage celebrity seed and Kardashian mini-me Kylie Jenner, and the latest word on the street is supposedly that they’re just counting down the days in hopes that Jaden calls it quits sooner than later.

via Celeb Dirty Laundry

The Kardashians may have given their blessing to the deepening relationship between Kylie Jenner and Jaden Smith, but his parents refuse to do the same.

Closet Scientologists, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith, don’t believe in telling their kids what to do, however they are hoping that their son sees the light and distances himself from this fame whoring family sooner rather than later.

According to the Aug. 12th print edition of Star magazine, Will thinks that being affiliated with the reality TV [attention slores] could have a serious affect on Jaden’s blossoming film career.

In his mind, bonafide actors do not do reality television if they want to be taken seriously.

In addition to talk that Will thinks Kylie and her reality star surroundings will hurt Jaden’s chances at big-screen super stardom, there are also rumors that he is none too fond of Kylie’s YMCMB buddy Lil Twist.

Plus Kylie has been spotted on several occasions out and about in LA with Lil Twist who is nothing but trouble.  Will [allegedly] doesn’t want Jaden even slightly associated with a guy like Twist either.

Jaden and Kylie are at this point still seeing each other because Will believes that his son needs to come to his senses on his own here, but that doesn’t mean that he hasn’t planted some mental seeds.

According to Jaden his dads’ best advice to date is not to have a girlfriend because “the stress is real”.

If there’s any truth to this, then we def don’t see this teenage twosome lasting much longer.

Do you think Jaden dating Kylie could have a negative effect on his big-screen Hollyweird career?

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Lindsay Lohan Says She Will Never Drink Again

Either her 9,785 rehab stint FINALLY worked, or Hollyweird wild child Lindsay Lohan is just babbling to hear herself talk, because she says she’s a bottle-hugger no more.

via THG

Lindsay Lohan is determined to live alcohol-free. Like forever.

The actress, who just got out of rehab but was warned by her doctors and a judge to stick with treatment or face certain failure, is apparently taking that advice.

So committed is LiLo to her sobriety that she will insist hotel rooms, dressing rooms and even her mom’s home are dry when she comes for a visit.

Dina Lohan’s house, alcohol free? That will be a tall order, but she checked into the Beverly Hills Hotel this week and did just as described above.

Same goes for her guest stint on Chelsea Lately last week. She insisted her dressing room contain only non-alcoholic drinks before her gig on E!

Lindsay also plans to travel with a “sober coach” for at least the next week.

We’ll see how long this one holds up.

In all fairness, it makes a world of difference to have people around you who have your best interest in mind so her crew making sure her dressing rooms, hotels rooms, etc. are actually free of alcohol will play a big part in Lindsay sticking to this proclamation.

Straight cash homie…

Jennifer Lopez To Return To American Idol For $15 Million

Via RadarOnline

Jennifer Lopez and FOX have agreed that she will return to Idol in a deal that will make her one of the highest paid judges in reality television, sources connected to the show tell RadarOnline.com.

J.LO’s one-year deal with AI will be worth at least $15 million PLUS bonuses – it’s the same amount Britney Spears signed up to The X Factor for but just shy of the $18 million that Mariah Carey made for her one season cameo on Idol earlier this year.

Though it’s less than the $20 million Lopez made on her second season at the judge’s panel, the contract will dwarf the $12 million she earned for debut during season 10.

The return of the Latin superstar is expected to be announced in one to two weeks along along with a return to a three-judge panel that will include country music star Keith Urban and an as yet unsigned third member.

Deadline reported at the weekend that the pop music artist will.i.am was likely to take the third position.

Outside of gettin’ rained on, J.Lo says she wants to stay in L.A. to raise her twins in a stable environment

As Radar previously reported, J.LO approached FOX as she wanted to be grounded in Los Angeles and have a settled life for herself and her five-year-old twins, Max and Emme, as they prepare to go to kindergarten.

“Idol allowed her to do that,” a source said.

“The twins will enter kindergarten in the Fall and stability is important for them ­ and J.LO ­ at this time. She’s looking for possible schools for the kids in Los Angeles at the moment.

“Plus, if she’s living in L.A. full-time she will be able to focus on her film career and other ventures, including her fashion business.”

Casper is probably all smiles. Smh…

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Kelly Rowland continues to open up about her close scrape with death at sea a few weeks ago.

Via People reports:

Kelly Rowland admits there was a moment when she feared for her life when the boat she was on got lost off the coast of Provincetown, Mass., on July 22.

“I remember thinking to myself, ‘Lord, please don’t let this boat capsize,” The X Factor judge told PEOPLE at the Television Critics Association meeting in Beverly Hills. “Please let us get to shore in one safe, sound piece. I just want to see tomorrow.”

The 32-year-old was on a whale-watching cruise with friends when they lost sight of the boat they’d been following.

Suddenly there was “no more shore, no more land, we’re seeing no more of the buoys, no more of the boats passing by – it’s just in the middle of nowhere, so we realized that we’re lost,” she says.

It was 1:35 p.m. and Rowland and her pals tried to call for help on their cellphones, but since they were so far from shore, no one had a signal.

“I was like, ‘Please, Lord, give me two bars,’” she remembers. “He gave me two bars and we contacted some folks that were on land and they helped us.”

The Coast Guard sent a towboat operator to escort them to Provincetown, but it wasn’t an easy cruise back to civilization.

“The waves coming in were like 5 to 10 feet high and the boat was only a 27-foot boat and it felt like forever to get back to shore,” Rowland says. They arrived at the dock at 11:47 p.m. – more than 10 hours after they realized they were lost.

Rowland laughs about the adventure now, but admits that she doesn’t want to get on another boat “for a long time – a very long time.”

The new season of The X Factor premieres Sept. 11 on Fox.

That definitely sounds scary. We’re glad God had Kelly’s back, who knows if Baphomet would have done the same for Bey. (Just kidding)

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Today in dumb azz husband news…

Man Blows Himself Up And Injures Pregnant Wife While Making A Bomb

A man in Tunisia reportedly received a fatal does of his own medicine recently when a bomb he was making exploded and killed him.

via Huffington Post

Tunisian authorities say a suspected religious extremist blew himself up while making a bomb in a home he was renting near the capital.

In a statement Saturday, Tunisia’s interior ministry says anti-terrorist police are still working to identify the man.

His pregnant wife was seriously wounded in the Friday blast, which took place in Jedaida, about 12 miles from Tunis.

Separately, the interior ministry says an “extremist” was also arrested on Friday after he blew off his hand while handling explosives in Menzel Bourguiba, 43 miles from Tunis.

The explosions come days after the government said an al-Qaida linked cell was behind the assassination of leftist politician Mohammed Brahmi.

SMH. This guy sounds like he was top-tier idiot all around. Hopefully the wife and the baby pull through.

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LeBron James Complains About Being Too Famous

Poor LeBron James. He’s been a celebrity since he was 15 and he can barely go anywhere. It’s a tough life where a guy can’t go get some Frosted Flakes from Target without being swarmed by a million fans.

Pardon us while we grab a tiny violin for King James.

Meanwhile take a look at his sad tweets and more pics of him having such a difficult existence.

9 Celebrities Who Think They Look Better Than They Do

Confidence is a beautiful thing. It’s always good to think you look great, but you gotta be realistic. These celebrities really think they’re God’s gift and carry themselves like it. But honestly, they’re as regular as the rest of us.

Take a look at these celebrities who think they’re top shelf when they’re more like the drink special.

“Alriiiiiight”

‘ATL’ Movie Director Hints At A Sequel In The Works

The popular hood-favorite film that jump started the acting careers of young black hollyweirders like Lauren London, T.I. and Malika Haaq looks like it might be headed back to the big screen for round 2.

via VIBE

Last night, while surfing the wave of Instagram, a picture of him and director Chris Robinson (Real Husbands of Hollywood) led to a very interesting discovery.

The acclaimed film director has battled rumors surrounding a possible sequel to Clifford “T.I.” Harris’ 2006 film, ATL, for years now. Robinson, the man behind Robot Film Company, said back in 2009 that the speculation involving the was “pure rumor,” and that the film could go into motion at the fans’ request.

“We all joked about doing an ATL 2, and how down T.I.’s character would be running the comic section of the newspaper and what the twins would be doing,” Robinson told Rap-Up. “But you never know. If the fans wanted it enough, there would definitely be a sequel.”

Well, guess the fans will finally get their wish.

Director Chris Robinson recently posted this pic to his Instagram with the accompanying caption “II 2014,” hinting that a sequel is definitely in the works and scheduled for release next year:

Will you be checking for “ATL II” if it really does hit theaters next Spring??

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Chris Brown’s Side Chicks

Chris Brown isn’t exactly Mr. Charming when it comes to the ladies. He keeps women wanting him then he finds a way to keep getting caught with side chicks and his main joints don’t care. You think it’s exaggerated?

Take a look at all the women’s he’s been allegedly caught with.

Ho sit down!

Oprah Winfrey Refuses To Comment About Paula Deen Using The N-Word

Via USMagazine

Oprah Winfrey befriended Paula Deen when she interviewed the butter-loving cook for an episode of Oprah’s Next Chapter in March 2012. The talk show host even spent the night at Deen’s Georgia home, where the women discussed everything from Deen’s financial insecurities to her diabetes diagnosis.

More than a year later, in a videotaped deposition, Deen admitted to once using the N-word in the past. The 66-year-old Southerner was subsequently fired by the Food Network and lost multiple endorsement deals. Until recently, Winfrey had remained silent on her friend’s latest controversy.

“In the very first days I tried to reach her and then I decided to stay out of it as I saw it blowing up,” Winfrey, 59, tells Entertainment Tonight. “In time she will be fine. For me, it all just felt kind of sad.”

Winfrey believes people need to let the “dust settle” before they can have a “real conversation” about racism in today’s world. While the TV titan hasn’t been subjected to racial epithets in years, she has experienced racism in the workplace.

“Nobody in their right mind is going to call me the N-word. You know, you see those fools on Twitter sometime say ridiculous things. But nobody in their right mind is going to do that to my face, because true racism is being able to have power over somebody else,” Winfrey explains. “So that doesn’t happen to me that way.”

The Butler star continues, “It shows up for me if I’m in a boardroom or situations where I’m the only woman or I’m the only African American person within a hundred mile radius. I can see in the energy of the people there, they don’t sense that I should be holding one of those seats. I can sense that. But I can never tell, ‘Is it racism? Is it sexism?’”

When asked to comment about Deen during an interview with Extra, Winfrey laughed but declined to say anything more about the disgraced TV personality. “Oh my god! I don’t have anything to do with Paula Deen,” she insisted. “She is not the first white lady to use the N-word! Good lord!”

Oprah sure didn’t mind opening her pie hole to throw rappers under the bus for saying “n***a”, why won’t HARPO toss some of that vitriol toward Paula’s fat azz?!

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Do you think Black Jesus would be poppin’ bottles with Rick Ross?

Pastor Fired For Attending Rick Ross Concert

Via Praise DC reports:

AmericaPreachers.com reports that Pastor Rodney Wills was just about to reach 4 years at Mt. Salem Baptist Church.

He is the youngest pastor to be installed at 26 years old and is now the shortest term pastor in Mt. Salem’s 109 year history. On Saturday, Mt. Salem voted him out for attending a local Rick Ross concert. With a vote of 11 to 3, the 14 deacons met at 11pm Saturday night to discuss and come to a conclusion that they did not need his services anymore. Rev. Wills arrived to the church the next day for Sunday morning worship service and notice his parking sign taken down and his name removed from the office door.

The deacons even asked another minister from the community to officiate the service that morning. “We cannot have our leader supporting people of this world who are tearing down the kingdom of God.” said Deacon Miles Langley. According to Deacon Langley, this is not the first time Rev. Wills has attended a concert while pastoring Mt. Salem. 9 months ago the diaconate board met with Rev. Wills when word was given to them that many youth and young adults spotted the pastor at a Lil Wayne concert.

“We know that many saints will have mixed opinions from our actions, but this is not how we do things here at Mt. Salem. We cannot have a pastor praising the world one minute then praising the Lord the next. Period” said Deacon Langley.

Rick Ross recently made nationwide news when he was dropped from Reebok and other endorsements for lyrics advocating rape towards women. ”Put Molly all in her Champagne/ She ain’t even know it/ I took her home and I enjoyed that/ She ain’t even know it,” he raps on the track

Do you think the pastor should have been fired? HE THINK HE BIG PREACHY!

We’re glad he’s okay but this must have been quite a scare… Usher’s oldest son is currently in the hospital recovering after a scary pool accident.

Via TMZ reports:

Usher’s son Usher Raymond V is in the ICU at an Atlanta hospital after a serious accident in the singer’s pool Monday, TMZ has learned.

Sources tell TMZ, the accident occurred around 6 PM yesterday. Usher was not home at the time.

Here’s what we know. The child was playing in the pool with his aunt and saw a toy in the drain. He dove down to get the toy and his arm got stuck in the drain. The aunt immediately dove in to the rescue him but couldn’t get his hand out. The maid then dove in and tried but was also unsuccessful.

The maid screamed for help. Two men working in the house came out, dove in and freed the boy. He was given CPR immediately and rushed to the hospital. Usher arrived and drove in the ambulance with his son.

5-year-old Usher Raymond V is the oldest of Usher’s two sons with ex-wife Tameka Raymond. We’re told Usher and Tameka are currently at the hospital.

Doctors have been running a series of tests and doctor’s say he’ll be ok.

This is the second accident to strike children in Usher’s family. Tameka’s 11-year-old son Kile from a previous relationship passed away last year from injuries sustained during a jet ski accident.

We’re definitely keeping Usher V in our thoughts and hope he makes a full and speedy recovery!