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Random Ridiculouness: Texas Woman Sentenced To 70 Years For Stealing Christmas Decorations, Plotting Murder, And More!

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Dana Brock

THIS is what happens when you try to steal Christmas!

Judge Gives Texas Woman 70 Years For Stealing Christmas Lights And More

Via DailyMail

A Texan woman dubbed the real-life Mrs Grinch because she stole Christmas lights has been sentenced to 70 years in prison.

Dana Brock, 43, was arrested last December after she was caught on surveillance video stealing lights from outside a family’s home in Aledo while they were sleeping.

She was arrested again in May after she stole a weed killer and a power washer from another person’s garage.

Brock shook her head as the judge read her 70-year sentence.

‘It appears that she was committing these offences and then contracting with others to hang these stolen lights,’ Parker County sheriff Larry Fowler told the Star-Telegram.

‘They said she strung lights and then they heard about her arrest and said, “Uh-oh, maybe these lights on our home are stolen.”‘

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The biggest crack in the case came when surveillance footage from a home in Aledo captured a clear shot of Brock’s face.

The video obtained by the local CBS affiliate shows the middle-aged blonde woman approaching the door of the Starnes family home just after 3am on December 7.

She walks confidently to the front door and removes the festive wreath before walking quickly back to her car and driving off with her new decoration.

The wreath must not have completed her own winter display, as she came back a week later to take home two strings of twinkle lights from the Starnes’ driveway.

‘I think it’s scary that a grown woman would feel the need to do that,’ Ashley Starnes said.

‘That she would walk up to the front door and take something – it scared me for my kids.’

It wasn’t just Christmas lights that this janky broad was stealing…

Stolen laptops were found in her Aledo home and she was charged with theft of property between $50 and $500.

She has a number of previous convictions including an assault charge against a family member which has a pending January court date.

She has also spent time in prison for solicitation of murder and two assault with bodily injury convictions.

Cotdamn! Looks like Dana deserves every hour of time she got!

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What The Hell??? Bogus South African Sign Language Interpreter Helped Burn Two Men To Death In 2003!?!

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New details have emerged about the violent crime charges fake deaf interpreter Thamsanqa Jantjie faced a decade ago.

According to NYPost reports:

The bogus sign language interpreter at last week’s Nelson Mandela memorial service was among a group of people who accosted two men found with a stolen television and burned them to death by setting fire to tires placed around their necks, one of the interpreter’s cousins and three of his friends told The Associated Press Monday.

But Thamsanqa Jantjie never went to trial for the 2003 killings when other suspects did in 2006 because authorities determined he was not mentally fit to stand trial, said the four. They insisted on speaking anonymously because of the sensitivity of the fake signing fiasco, which has deeply embarrassed South Africa’s government and prompted a high-level investigation into how it happened.

Their account of the killings matched a description of the crime and the outcome for Jantjie that he himself described in an interview published on Sunday by the Sunday Times newspaper of Johannesburg.

“It was a community thing, what you call mob justice, and I was also there,” Jantjie told the newspaper.

Instead of standing trial, Jantjie was institutionalized for a period of longer than a year, the four said, and then returned to live in his poor township neighborhood on the outskirts of Soweto. At some point after that, they said, he started getting jobs doing sign language interpretation at events for the governing African National Congress Party.

Jantjie told the AP last week he has schizophrenia and hallucinated, seeing angels while gesturing incoherently just 3 feet away from President Barack Obama and other world leaders during the Tuesday ceremony at a Soweto stadium. Signing experts said his arm and hand movements were mere gibberish.

In the interview last Thursday, Jantjie said he had been violent in the past “a lot” but declined to provide more details and blamed his violence on his schizophrenia, for which he said he was institutionalized for 19 months in a period that included time during 2006. The cousin and the three friends said the “necklacing” killing of the suspected thieves occurred within a few hundred meters (yards) from Jantjie’s tidy concrete home near ramshackle dwellings.

The four spoke to the AP on Monday in Jantjie’s neighborhood, and one of the friends described himself as Jantjie’s best friend.

Necklacing was a method of killing that was fairly common during the struggle against apartheid by blacks on blacks suspected of aiding the white government or belonging to opposing factions. The method was also used in tribal disputes in the 1980s and 1990s. While people who encounter suspect thieves in South Africa have been known to beat or kill them to mete out punishment, necklacing them has been rare.

SMH… This guy is going to disappear before they find something else to charge him with.

Meanwhile investigators are still looking for the person responsible for him getting the Mandela funderal gig:

An investigation is under way by South African officials to determine who hired Jantjie as the onstage interpreter at the Mandela memorial service and if and how he received security clearance. The officials have not said how long their investigation will take place, and reaching them for updates was difficult Monday, a public holiday in South Africa.

Four government departments involved in organizing the historic memorial service have distanced themselves from the hiring of Jantjie, telling the AP they had no contact with him. A fifth government agency, the Department of Public Works, declined to comment and referred all inquiries about Jantjie to the office of South Africa’s top government spokeswoman, who has only said a “comprehensive report” will eventually be released.

Jantjie told the AP he was hired for the event by an interpretation company that has used him on a freelance basis for years, but government officials have said the owners of the company have disappeared. The address that Jantjie provided for the company was occupied by a different company that is not involved in interpreting for the deaf.

The AP was unable to verify the existence of the school where Jantjie said he studied signing for a year. An online search for the school, which Jantjie said was called Komani and located in Eastern Cape Province, turned up nothing. Advocates for the deaf said they have never heard of the school and said there are no known sign language institutes in the province.

The Star newspaper of Johannesburg reported Friday that Jantjie said he studied sign language interpretation in Britain at the “University of Tecturers.” A British charity that awards qualifications for deaf and deaf-blind communications techniques said it had never heard of the university.

Sounds like NOBODY did their research. Whole lotta folks getting fired over this!

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Kanye West Talks About His Mother’s Death And Being Arrogant Enough To Fool The Media! [Video]

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Kim enjoyed Kanye’s performance at in Anaheim.

Turm the pages for all the talk…

Indiana Bride Goes From Newlywed To Widow After Hubby Is Struck By 3 Cars Trying To Assist Stranded Motorist

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William and Nikki Knight

They were just leaving their wedding reception! This is so sad.

According to NY Daily News reports:

A newly married man was struck and killed by three vehicles Saturday night while helping a stranded motorist on the side of the road — about 7 hours after his wedding.

William Knight, 49, and his new wife Nikki were driving to a hotel after their wedding reception at about 11:45 p.m. when they saw a woman, Linda Darlington, 42, whose car had gone off-road into a ditch in Crown Point, Ind., local media report.

“He said, ‘We’ve got to stop, it’s late and they need help,’” she told the Chicago Sun-Times.

The bride stayed in their truck, parked in a nearby driveway, while her new husband walked to the street to help Darlington. Suddenly, they were hit by three vehicles heading east in quick succession, authorities said.

Nikki Knight walked out to the scene after hearing a thud to find Knight and Darlington motionless without pulses. They were pronounced dead at the scene, the local coroner’s office said.

Autopsies revealed that they died from blunt force trauma.

“I went from a being a newlywed to a widow in less than 48 hours — the highest high to the lowest low,” she said to the Chicago paper. “It’s a blur.”

The Knights married at 5 p.m. that day.

Knight, who most recently worked as a heat treating specialist, served as a U.S. Army Ranger for 12 years with tours of duty during the First Gulf War, his wife said.

“He was the type of person who was willing to put himself on the line and support you no matter what,” she said.

Knight leaves behind his wife, two daughters, a stepdaughter and a stepson.
All drivers involved stopped their vehicles and stayed at the scene. No charges have been filed and it is unclear whether drugs or alcohol played a role in the crash.

Just heartbreaking! Our thoughts and prayers go out to his widow and family as well as the family of the woman who was killed.

R.I.P.

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In Aint Isht Parents News: Teen Couple Popped For Making Their 1-Year-Old Son Smoke Kush

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Teen Parents Arrested For Making Toddler Smoke Pot

A teen couple from upstate New York is facing reckless endangerment charges after they collectively had the bright idea to force their almost-2-year-old son to smoke pot.

via Huffington Post

Police say a pair of New York teenagers forced their 23-month-old child to smoke marijuana.

The Chautauqua (shuh-TAW’-kwuh) County sheriff’s office tells The Buffalo News (http://bit.ly/18rNhgX ) that the toddler’s parents and grandfather allegedly helped or watched the toddler smoke marijuana from a lighted bowl on Dec. 5 in an apartment in western New York.

Authorities say 17-year-old Jessica Kelsey, 18-year-old George Kelsey and Jessica’s 54-year-old father, Don Baker, were arraigned Friday on charges of second-degree reckless endangerment and endangering the welfare of a child. They are being held in lieu of $10,000 cash or $20,000 bond.

We would blame this foolishess on their age but, as we’ve seen on countless occasions, aint-isht parents come in all shapes, colors……and ages.

Matrimony-dom: Michael Strahan And Nicole Murphy Planning Secret Over-The-Top Extravagant Summer Wedding

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Sounds like Mike is trying to outdo Kanye. Michael Strahan is reportedly trying to plan a summer wedding with Nicole Murphy that will be bigger than her first nuptials with Eddie Murphy and put KimYe’s ceremony to shame, capturing the title for Wedding of the Year.

According to National Enquirer reports:

MICHAEL STRAHAN is secretly planning an over-the-top $2 million-plus wedding to fiancee Nicole Murphy that will feature everything from gold limos to a galaxy of A-list stars.

Insiders say his spectacular wed­ding to Eddie Murphy’s ex-wife next summer is a blatant attempt to capture the spotlight – a move that could shake up the “Live Kelly & Mi­chael” set.

“Michael is a show-boater – it’ll be a super-lavish affair,” declared an insider.

“He wants to get married in Manhattan with a reception that will cost a bundle. He was even saying it would be cool if he and his bride could exchange vows at the top of the Empire State Building!

“He wants to arrive in gold limos and plans to have a Who’s Who of famous stars, politicians and sports celebrities on the guest list.

“With an ex­otic honeymoon thrown in, it’s estimated that the bash will cost more than $2 million.”

The 42-year-old former NFL player and his fian­cee Nicole, 45, have been engaged since 2009 and now “they want their ceremony to be the Wedding of the Year,” said the source.

“This is already remind­ing people of Star Jones, who turned into a ‘bridezilla’ when she famously took over ‘The View’ with nonstop talk about her wedding.

“Everywhere he goes, Michael is already showing everyone bridal magazines with Post-It Notes sticking out of the pages.”

Meanwhile, his fiancee Nicole is no stranger to extravagant wed­dings. Back in 1993, she reportedly blew $1.2 million when she walked the aisle with Eddie at New York’s Plaza Hotel in front of 500 guests, including Bruce Willis, Queen Latifah and Bill Murray.

“Michael wants Nicole’s wedding to Eddie to look like a kiddie party in compari­son,” said the source.

“It’s sure to get massive news cover­age, and that’s what Michael wants – but it’s certain to rub Kelly’s crew the wrong way.”

Now Kelly’s team at Live! are con­cerned that the upcoming nuptials will dominate the gabfest.

The competition to be the show’s top dog has already caused problems – and it could get worse.

Michael’s also planning to buy a $25 million apartment near their studio, another “look at me” tactic that appar­ently has Kelly’s crew rolling their eyes.

Said the source: “It’s no secret that Michael is trying to hog the lime­light – and his celebrity wedding is the topper.”

SMH. Be careful. Let’s not forget what happened to Star Jones AFTER her wedding.

Dear Bossip: I Don’t Appreciate Not Hearing From Him After We Spent A Wonderful Night Together, Then He Got Sick

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Black woman irritated

Dear Bossip,

I met a guy, and we like each other. He’s recently divorced with two kids.

We both decided to have a casual relationship, and since I just got out of 7 year relationship.

My work schedule is very hectic and he travels a lot so I figured great we would never get on each other’s nerves, and when we do go out it will be great and sexy, just what I wanted.

Sounds simple right? Well, it’s not, and I’m coming to realize that. After months of talking and a few broken dates by me because of family and work, he planned a weekend in Laguna Beach (I like the beach). He got us a suite at one of my favorite places, Hotel Laguna, right on the beach. I went, we had lunch, we walked the beach, and his friend invited us to a dinner party and then dancing. It was great. We all got along great we had a blast. He and I finally had our intimate time just like we talked about too. It was great!!! We could not keep our hands off each other, it was awesome.

I get back home and we talked for the first night, then he told me he was sick. To be fair he was coming down with something on that Friday. I told him I was so sorry and tried to be there as much as I could. We don’t live in the same city. On day 2 he was less chatty, only to tell me he was feeling horrible. Again, I was sympathetic, but not more I could do. Then, I noticed when texted him I got no response. At first I was ok with it. He’s a lawyer, so I get it. Then, I got irritated and I told him I don’t appreciate his silence especially since I started getting sick, too. I told him being sick is no reason to stop communication. I told him I won’t accept that. He responded that he’s sorry and how he was going to call me later that night or the next day since it was his weekend with his kids. I said I look forward to speaking with you. He did not call me and I have not texted him. I am allowing him to be responsible and keep his word.

Is he blowing me off or am I being unreasonable? – Treat Me Right

Dear Ms. Treat Me Right,

I would have done the same thing he did. I would have apologized, and then told you I would call you later, or the next day, just to appease your a**, and then you would never hear from me AGAIN!

I don’t understand you folks. Seriously! How you start your letter by stating that you and he both agreed that you would have a casual relationship, but by the end of your letter you are demanding he call, text, and make commitments to you? The man was sick! Hell, who wants to talk on the phone, and be chatty and engage in long conversations when you’re not feeling well? And, he’s a lawyer, dealing with cases, courts, and judges. Then, he has to be daddy and be active for his kids who are visiting for the weekend. He probably wanted to get his rest and heal. Did you ever think that he was probably doped up on medication, and he was knocked out sleeping, and resting his body? Girl, pump your motherfreaking breaks! Ugh!

You just came out of a 7 year relationship, and he is a recent divorcee. Girl, what do you want from him? He is not about to jump into something serious anytime soon. He is out to have fun, and enjoy himself. And, you should be doing the same thing. That is why you both agreed it would be a casual relationship. Casual means there is no commitment or obligation. It’s enjoying the time together when you are together, and not feeling obligated to call, check in, and or text. You keep it casual, boo! You do dinner, hang out, go to the movies, the museum, the beach, or other activities, but, you do them sporadically, here and there. KEEP IT CASUAL!

Chile, you women, and some of you men, will immediately try to boo up somebody once you sleep with them. You want to make them your man, or woman, and start putting demands on them, and making a relationship after one date. LMBAO! Stop it! Stop that –ish today! I hope you folks will learn how to start dating again, or being in casual relationships, and really get to know the other person. That’s what dating and casual relationships are all about. Spending time with the other person, doing things, and not being too serious, but enjoying the times you have together. It’s not about setting up shop, or moving in, and asking, “Where is this going?” after the first or second week. The hell!

But, your a** caught feelings after he booked a reservation for a suite at your favorite hotel, and you met his friends, and then you spent the evening together having great and amazing sex. You were the one who made it something it was not. He was only treating you nice, and doing something special because that is what you like and enjoy, and he wanted to make it special and nice for you, and him. He didn’t say or tell you that he wanted to take your relationship to the next level. It was your first time together, and he did something nice. And, because you met his friends, and you women do this all the time, you feel like, “Oh, I just met his friends, and they like me. He must really like me if he introduced me to his friends.” Uhm, no! You misread it, and felt a certain type of way about it.

But, hold on, for months while you were talking and getting to know one another, you were the one who broke dates with him. Your busy and hectic schedule did not allow you time to hang out with him. And, this was perfect for you, according to you. You said, “My work schedule is very hectic and he travels a lot so I figured great we would never get on each other’s nerves, and when we do go out it will be great and sexy, just what I wanted.” So, why are you complaining that he didn’t call, or text you like he said he would, but got sick, and you knew he was sick?

Some of you women will stay losing.

This man went out of his way to plan a special day, and evening with and for you. And, you’ve dismissed it all by making him wrong for not calling or texting while he is sick. You felt it proper and obligatory to inform him that you didn’t appreciate his silence, despite him being sick, and you won’t take being ignored. Bwahahahahaha! Ma’am you are in a casual relationship, but making demands like you’re in a committed relationship. Girl, stop! Fix your wig and sit down somewhere.

I know why you’re really mad. You’re upset that you gave him the goodies on the first date, and because he’s not blowing up your phone, and trying to schedule date two, and three, or he didn’t send you flowers, or text you with lovey-dovey notes, you’re feeling like a cheap whore. I get it, boo. I’m reading what you’re not saying. Peep game, sweetie!

So, yes, you are and were being unreasonable. You forgot that you and he both agreed this was a casual relationship. This is why you need to take your time and date after just ending a 7 year relationship. You cannot make demands, or expect someone to call, or text you every day, all day, and check in with you if you are casually dating.

Pump your brakes, and take the next few months to cleanse, heal, and readjust your life to being single. You can’t expect someone to move as quickly, or do what you want them to do as fast you want them to. And, don’t sleep with someone on the first date, not unless you really and truly understand that it is casual, and there is no expectation afterward. There is no commitment, or obligation. Get into you, knowing you, what you want, and what you expect. If you say that you really want to date casually, then know what casual means. – Terrance Dean

Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below!

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Little Boy Catches The Holy Ghost And Preaches His Lil Bloomers Off! [Video]

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Got rhythm and swagger…

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Beyonce Narrates “Self-Titled” Part 1 . The Visual Album [Video]

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Bey is as big as Michael Jackson now, there… we said it!

Self-Titled” is a mini art feature comprised of several parts that give a glimpse into the entire project. It details her mind-set and artistic vision throughout the making of BEYONCÉ.

They just released another promo for the album… turn the page and peep.

Big Faced Bell Ringer For Salvation Army Gets Socked In The Face Over Saying “Happy Holidays” Instead Of “Merry Christmas” [Video]

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Raw Story Reports:

A woman in Arizona says that she was recently assaulted while working as a bell ringer for the Salvation Army because she greeted shoppers with the phrase “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas.”

Kristina Vindiola told KNXV that she was collecting donations outside a Walmart in Phoenix and chose the wrong greeting for one woman.

“The lady looked at me,” Vindiola recalled. “I thought she was going to put money in the kettle. She came up to me and said, ‘Do you believe in God?’ And she says, ‘You’re supposed to say Merry Christmas,’ and that’s when she hit me.”

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Wendy Williams Praises Beyonce’s Album, Throws Shots At Rihanna, And Tries To Take Responsibility For Khloe Filing For Divorce From Lamar! [Video]

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Wendy, you also said you hate the Kardashians and you don’t believe Kanye will marry Kim…

Khloe reached her breaking point and finally filed for divorce from Lamar.

Beyonce surprised the world by releasing a new album. Rihanna reads a fan on Instagram and Amber Rose shows off her HOT post-baby body!

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TI & Tiny Holiday Hustle Special (Cartoon) Full Episode! [Video]

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This animated adventure takes the Harris family all from the familiar streets of Atlanta, to the furthest reaches of the North Pole on a mission to save Santa!

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Ceaser Dumps Dutchess For Good! – Black Ink Crew [Video]

Floyd Mayweather Sr. & Uncle Roger Mayweather Talk Adrien Broner Loss: “He Got His Azz Whooped… They Thought He Was Like Floyd” [Video]

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We are giving away 3 backpacks to three lucky Bossip readers.

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Dear Bossip: My Husband Cheated & The Woman Had A Baby, But I’m Sick And Tired Of Her Shenanigans

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Black woman fed up

Dear Bossip,

I’ve been with my husband for almost 8 years now and for almost 2 of those years we have been married. We also have 2 children together.

Either right before or right after our wedding day my husband cheated with a woman from his past and a baby came of it exactly 9 months into our marriage. This woman is still in love with my husband, and always has been willing to do anything to have him. She and I have had many run-ins before we got married, so we don’t get along at all.

The baby recently turned 1-year old and she went out of her way to have a birthday party at my husband’s family house. She wouldn’t allow separate parties. She said if my husband had his own party she would come to that also. I wasn’t even informed about the party until the day before, so I hardly had any time to prepare myself mentally and emotionally. It was humiliating for me to have to be at this child’s party with her walking around also.

My husband lets this woman run all over him and she does whatever she wants, and it makes me feel like I’m overreacting.  I (his wife) should not be put in situations like that. He acts as if he doesn’t see what she’s doing. I’m on the verge of filing for divorce. I’m tired of the drama, hurt & pain I’ve had to go through because of my husband’s selfishness.  What should I do? – Another Woman In Our Marriage

Dear Ms. Another Woman In Our Marriage,

Divorce! Divorce! Divorce!

I’ll be damned if I would sit up and marry a man who cheated right before or right after our wedding and produced a baby. So, the first nine months of your marriage you are dealing with another woman carrying your husband’s baby. Yet, you stayed and figured what? She would move on and out of your lives? You and your husband would live happily ever after? SMDH! And, he knew you had run-ins with her before you got married, yet, he cheated with her. The woman you don’t get along with? Welp! She can have him.

Why did, or do you stay? What are you getting out of it? There has to be some reason you are staying, or there is something you are trying to prove. Is it because you were together 6 years prior to marrying him, and you feel you’ve made an investment in him. You got him to where you needed him to be, and you’ve dealt with his infidelities before, so, you figured if he married he would straighten out? Uhm, Ms. Honey, that didn’t work, now did it? The man cheated right before or right after your wedding. He is a low-down scum dirty rat bastard. He is not a man. He is a child. He is hoe, a trifling crusty d**k piece of –ish.

Your man had unprotected sex with this woman, and she is not the first or last, and then he came home and had unprotected sex with you. Think about that. Let that marinate in your thick a** skull. The man you’ve been with for nearly 8 years has raw sex with women with no regard for his health, his safety, or your health or your safety. Think about that. Let it stir in your head. He is going in women RAW, doing lawd knows what with them, and then you are letting him lay in your bed at night. He is up under you in the bed acting as if nothing has happened. Please let that sink in, and marinate under that polyester wig.

Ma’am cut your loses, divorce his a**, collect alimony, and put him on child support. Ain’t no way I would stick around and deal with him, or her shenanigans for the next 18 years, and especially if he wants to act like he doesn’t see what she’s doing. Uhm, no ma’am. He can act stupid and dumb all he want, but it shouldn’t be with you. You are not ignorant to her ways and what’s she’s up to. A fool you are not! Then, on top of it all, she had the nerve to throw the child a birthday party at your husband’s family house, and they let her?!?! What type of hood ghetto –ish is that?

I would have shut all that down! You can try to be the bigger woman all you want, but why the hell would you go and torment yourself  by sitting there, at your husband’s family house, entertaining a woman who wants to flaunt your husband’s child around, acting like she is the Queen B. You sitting there all humiliated, and sad. Chile, I would have snatched her up, and drug her all through that house, backyard, and up the street. Then, served his a** with the divorce papers!

Ain’t no way you should have allowed your husband to agree to that bull-ish, and he should have told his family to not entertain that mess. But, like you said, your husband wants to play dumb, and stupid. I feel that he likes this drama. He is enjoying this. He is benefiting from this. How? He has two women in his life fighting over him. You’re both competing and vying for his attention. She will do anything to get under his skin, and he enjoys it. You complain, yell, and scream, and demand that he treats you like his wife, and stop disrespecting you. And, he gets a kick out of this. You and the other woman are treating him just like he wants to be treated, like a little as boy. He is not a man, and will never be a man. So, let them two ratchet birds have one another.

It’s not worth it to stay. It’s not worth it have to deal with this for the next 18 years of your life because trust and believe it will get worse over the years. Someone is going to get hurt, and so that you won’t end up in jail, it’s just best to walk away. You deserve better. You don’t deserve to have to feel humiliated, mistreated, or disrespected, especially by some woman your husband won’t put into check, and is running over his life, and your marriage. For your own sanity, and peace of mind, let this go. Be thankful for this lesson because now you know what love is not. You know what you deserve, how to be treated, and the type of man you need in your life. Be encouraged, and be empowered. You have the power.  – Terrance Dean

Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? Share your opinions and thoughts below!

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Critics are already claiming she chose money over morals by performing for people who “might be corrupt.” Mariah Carey performed in Nigeria over the weekend but people are speculating that the funds used to pay her may have come from human trafficking or scamming!

According to RadarOnline reports:

Mariah Carey proudly posted a pic of herself in a slinky yellow dress and wrote, “Backstage in Nigeria” on Saturday.

But maybe the songbird should have done some homework before agreeing to the gig?

Her show was at Access Bank’s Christmas Party which was also a farewell bash for the bank’s managing director.

And while Access Bank is a reputable financial institution, should Carey have known a few basics about the African nation before taking the paycheck?

Ironically — given that she was performing for bankers — it seems Carey wasn’t aware Nigeria is well-known as the center of the world’s email financial crimes! Nigeria is even part of the name — as in “Nigerian 411 Scams.”

Nigeria is also, according to the United Nations, the hub of human trafficking as “a source, destination and transit country.

AND, just for good measure, there are mass killings going on in two Nigerian states right now, and according to Human Rights Watch, the violence is being ignored by federal authorities.

“Systemic corruption in the Nigeria Police Force” is the problem, a HRW spokesperson told CNN.

Carey isn’t the first performer who has taken a paycheck for appearing in countries known for terror, death and fraud.

In 2011, Beyoncé sang for Moammar Gadhafi’s sons and Jennifer Lopez performed in Turkmenistan.

SMH… This seems a bit premature to object without knowing whether or not the folks Mariah performed for had shady dealings. Do you think Mariah did her homework before accepting the overseas gig?

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