In white folks with black kids news… Sorta. Just kidding. We love Robin Thicke and his swirly son Julian Fuego. The soulful singer and his adorable seed were spotted heading to the movies in Hollyweird this weekend.

So precious…

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Hit the flip for photos of Jillian Michaels, Lukie Baby and the fam!

When you OFFER to take your clothes off again to people who have already turned  you down once, it might be time to get your life together…

Farrah Abraham Rejected By Playboy Magazine Again

“Teen Mom” reality star turned shameless slorey media magnet Farrah Abraham is continuing to set a stellar example for her young daughter. And by stellar, we mean worst example ever.

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Farrah Abraham has been shot down by Playboy magazine, according to reports, despite making a second push to strip down for the men’s publication.

Apparently looking to feed off the notoriety she gained from the Farrah Abraham sex tape slash “freaky flick”, she had her team reach out to Playboy this month.

Calling it “one of her lifelong dreams” to pose in the magazine (sad on so many levels), she offered to go fully nekkid for them, but was told to go kick rocks.

She had previously been turned down by Hugh Hefner’s flagship, but refused to take no for an answer. Her persistence didn’t pay off, however, as she got it again.

No word if she thinks the third time will be the charm.

In other Farrah news, she was recently kicked out of rehab for being a disruptive influence … and we don’t just mean because of her upgraded fake boobs.

A botched boob job, a sex tape, a failed rehab stint and now this? Somebody needs to get a grip on this chick before she ends up like all the wild child Hollyweird teenagers that came before her.

Celebrities Show Support To Trayvon Martin

We were all shocked and appalled by the decision to free George Zimmerman. And we weren’t the only ones. These celebrities stood by Trayvon by offering support via Twitter. While that’s nice, we’ll see what else they do to make a difference.

But this was a good start.

Kelis’ BFF Dania Ramirez is about to be a mommy!

Via US Weekly reports:

Double baby joy for Dania Ramirez! On Monday, July 15, the 33-year-old Devious Maids actress announced on Instagram that she is pregnant with twins!

Ramirez posted a photo of her sonogram and captioned the image, “I am proud 2 Announce our 2 NEW BUNDLES OF JOY! Yes, I’m having TWINS!” She jokingly added, “And No They Do not Belong 2 Mr. Spence. Lol! 13-5-22.” (Mr. Spence is the man Ramirez’s character Rosie Falta works for on Lifetime’s Devious Maids comedy-drama series.)

Ramirez married director Bev Land in February 2013. The director is already father to son Kai, 11, with ex-wife Sharon Leal.

Ramirez said it was love at first sight when she met Land. “The love of my life found me!” she told Latina after their engagement in January 2012. “That’s how he would say it anyway since he claims he was attracted to my energy before I even turned around.”

“The moment I turned around, he casually asked me and our mutual friend to join him for lunch and once we started talking I knew I could talk to him forever and we haven’t stopped talking since!” she recalled. “And, the fact that he’s ubersmart and has the most amazing son in the world, there was no doubt I was totally in.”

Congratulations Dania!!! We wonder how this will affect her role on “Devious Maids” — we’re guessing they’ve already taped quite a bit and will write in the pregnancy as part of the plot if necessary.

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Benzino And Joseline Post Pics From The LHHATL Reunion

The season 4 cast of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta took their talents to NYC last week for the taping of their rowdy and fawkery-filled reunion show.

From what we hear and from the looks of things, the entire cast made it out for the taping and they’ll certainly be plenty of foolery, surprises and all around nonsense in store when the reunion show airs in a few weeks.

In the meantime, bromance buddy Benzino and rumored new Stevie J Mrs. Joseline posted a few behind-the-scenes pics of the cast from the reunion show taping and the after party later on that night at Greenhouse in NYC. Take a look at some of what you can expect to see when the real thing airs on the flip…

This is funny…

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Jay Z says Kanye was salty because he wanted MCHG songs on Watch The Throne 2…

Jay Z Talks Fighting With Kanye Over New Album

Hov has revealed that Kayne West wanted to include ‘Holy Grail’ and ‘Oceans’ from his latest LP Magna Carta Holy Grail on their collaborative Watch The Throne album.

Via Gigwise reports:

Today and throughout out this week, BBC Radio 1′s Zane Lowe will air his new interview with Jay-Z.

Hov revealed to Lowe that he had already started working on the Magna Carta Holy Grail tracks ‘Holy Grail’ (featuring Justin Timberlake) and ‘Oceans’ (featuring Frank Ocean) around the time he was working on Watch the Throne with West.

He says that he and Yeezy agreed that after they did the album together, they’d start working on their new solo albums. Jay had made those two tracks and played them for Kanye, which instigated a ‘four-day argumen’t about it they should’ve been on WTT or held for MCHG.

Jay-Z said: “[There were] no lyrics on ‘Holy Grail’ and I recorded ‘Oceans’ and I played those records for Kanye and he was like, ‘no those have to go on Watch the Throne,’ so we spent four days arguing about those records and I was explaining to him why it wasn’t right for this project and I had a whole idea for making this album called Magna Carta… Holy Grail [part of] the name came after.”

The rapper also explained that the arguing was civil, “four days literally arguing… not like fighting. Well, there was some pushing at one point but not between us, just everyone else got a little excited.”

Catch the interview below:

Kanye’s unwarranted ego will cause the demise of this friendship. Get it together Ye!

Woman Lights Husbands Things On Fire After Fight

So folks are lighting isht up after fighting over pizza these days???

Via Eyewitness News 3:

A Middlebury woman found herself in some hot water after her husband called police to tell them she lit their bed on fire with him still in it. Middlebury police said they were called to a Lake Shore Drive home Wednesday night after a man called 911 reporting that his wife tried to light the bed on fire with him still in it.

When police arrived at the home, the man told police he went to bed after getting into a fight with his wife, identified as Jill Defusco, over pizza. He said he was in bed for a while and woke up to see his side of the bed was on fire. He said he jumped up and put the fire out before calling police.

Police said they examined the bed and found it was not burned, however they located a burnt card and a pair of his shorts. They said the home smelled of smoke.

Defusco was taken into custody after police discovered she lit the card on fire, which caught a pair of her husband’s short on fire and not the bed. She was charged with violation of a standing protective order, reckless endangerment and disorderly conduct.

SMH.

Awwww this is really sweet. A Bossip reader sent in some photos from a recent baby shower thrown by NFL baller Reshad Jones for his girlfriend Darnell Nicole. The couple is expecting a baby girl who they plan to name Carson Cree Jones.

Here’s a little more info on the couple and their big event:

Reshad Jones of the Miami Dolphins and girlfriend Darnell Nicole met in college (He went to UGA and she went to Clark Atlanta) and they are excited about their first child. She’s a writer and actress. We hear the mom to be is “Hilarious! Very witty!” She appeared in the movie “Kiss the Bride” with Reagan Gomez and Persia White from of “Girlfriends.” Reshad and Darnell were described by friends as “a beautiful black couple with amazing energy”! The lavish event had a Hollywood theme of “A Star is Born” and guests were required to have a VIP Pass to board the yacht. Lots of NFL’ers were in attendance including Marlon Moore of the 49ers.

Enjoy more photos below:

Whoooooo!

Police are looking for the ex-wife of Charlotte wrestling legend Ric Flair.

They said Jacqueline Beems threatened Flair’s new girlfriend and harassed her with several phone calls.

Eyewitness News found the arrest warrant for Beems in Mecklenburg County was filed in June.

Police have not said why it took so long to file a complain.

Beems and Flair were married in 2009. She filed for divorce at the end of last year.

Flair and his new girlfriend recently appeared on ABC’s “Celebrity Wife Swap.”

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Free at last! Free at last! Kim Kardashian has finally started stepping out after a stir crazy month at home with newborn North.

Via RadarOnline reports:

Kim Kardashian has been in hiding since giving birth to daughter North West more than four weeks ago, but RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned the new mother was recently spotted for the first time on a public outing with the baby — and we have all the details.

According to an onlooker, Kim was out and about in Southern California some time in the last few days, keeping a low profile and avoiding paparazzi by tooling around town in her nanny/helper’s car that looks anything but what Kim is accustomed to!

“Kim looks amazing, she really does. She’s dropped a lot of the baby weight already…not to say she still doesn’t have a ways to go, but she looked slim and was glowing,” the onlooker revealed.

“As for the baby, Kim and her helper kept a blanket over North’s car seat so nobody could catch a glimpse.”

This sighting of Kim is the first since she gave birth to North on June 15 — quite possibly the longest Kim has ever gone without being photographed since becoming a public figure.

As RadarOnline.com exclusively reported last week, Kim is sick of being in hiding and wants everyone to see her baby sooner rather than later.

“Kim is excited to have the whole world see her baby,” a source told Radar.

“She is saying that she knows that everyone will love her as much as she does and she wants people to see how beautiful she is.”

During Kim’s most recent sighting, the onlooker tells Radar Kim looked fabulous.

“She’s dropped quite a bit of the baby weight and it shows,” they said.

“And she really looked like a doting mother, which was nice to see.”

Awww… How sweet. It’s only been a month, how much weight do you think Kim could have lost already?

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Dear Bossip,

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years going on 5.

We both received full-scholarships, but to two different colleges and we are about 5 hours apart. So, at the moment we’re making the long distance thing work. Though I love him very much we are different when it comes to our financial status. Since high school he’s always had a job and works hard. I understood he wasn’t as fortunate as I was. Whenever he couldn’t afford to buy me something or to go out I was fine. I paid for most of our dates and still do, but I can tell he doesn’t like it.

I have always been spoiled. When I got my license my father bought me a car, and I got a second one when I graduated for high school. When I got to college I didn’t like living on campus so my parents got me an apartment not too far. My parents told me not to worry about getting a job until I feel like it or I get my degree.

I feel like my boyfriend is a little jealous or something because the other day we got into a huge argument because he didn’t have money to pay on his car and he was already late. I told my parents (who adore him) and they decided to GIVE (not loan) him the money and said he doesn’t have to pay back. When I told him he completely flipped out! He never yelled at me before and I’ve never seen him so mad. He basically called me spoiled, and told me, “If you get anywhere in life it’s because your daddy paid someone to let you through.” He left and has been ignoring me ever since.

My feelings are hurt and I’m so confused because all I wanted to do was help him out especially since he just got laid off, so he’s been struggling with his bills. Was I wrong? How do I fix it? – Super Spoiled

Dear Ms. Super Spoiled,

It seems that you got involved with your boyfriend’s finances when he didn’t ask you to get involved. He didn’t, doesn’t, nor need your help, especially your parent’s support, and therefore, he is upset that you went behind his back, told your parents about his financial struggles, and as a man he is embarrassed, and feels defeated that he can’t be a man and do for himself or his woman. And, because you have had the support from your family, and they are always there for you, you felt you could reach out to them, and you called in your reinforcements to help him, and unfortunately, that is a big no-no for most men.

A man who has worked all his life to do for himself and get himself through his challenges and obstacles does not feel like a man when he has to go to others for support and help. He will struggle, be broke, damn near destitute before he will reach out to anyone and ask for some assistance. Most people, like your boyfriend have stated, have the mentality and attitude that in order to get anywhere in life it’s because of hard work and doing for yourself. They pride themselves on being able to work hard and earn their own way because it means so much more for them when they can buy something or pay their bills. They appreciate things more so than those who have everything given to them. That is a great attribute of your boyfriend, and it shows he is willing to work hard and do what it takes to take care of himself.

But, unfortunately, your boyfriend has some resentment issues toward you because your parents have been able to give you what you want. You don’t have to work. You have already had two cars, and you live off-campus. Your boyfriend doesn’t have the financial support from his parents to do and be as care-free as you. You see, many people who have to work hard, take care of themselves, and earn money through hard work have difficulty asking anyone for help. They refuse to ask for help because it appears to them that they are unable or incapable of doing for themselves, and they feel embarrassed asking for help. So, they will suffer in silence, and just try to work out their situation on their own. They will never say anything to anyone. They will just go without before they ask for help. And, as much as you may want to get involved, help, and offer assistance they will refuse. They don’t want to feel indebted to anyone, or allow their ego to be bruised by you knowing that they can’t do for themselves. It’s nothing personal, or anything about you, it’s just how he is.

Therefore, dating someone like you can be difficult and challenging. Your outlook on life is from two different perspectives, and how you address your financial situations are just as different. He may be a saver, lives paycheck-to-paycheck, and doesn’t have the means to go out and eat a different restaurants, or hang out frivolously without thinking about how he is going to pay his bills, eat, or live. Whereas you don’t have those concerns. You can call your parents for money. You don’t have to worry who is going to pay your bills, and you don’t have to worry about hanging out, eating out, and spending without any concern.

It may be hard for you to understand that your boyfriend is self-sufficient and independent. He values and cherishes his things, and the ability to do for himself. It gives him a sense of accomplishment, and that he is able to pay his own way. He is not reliant upon anyone giving him anything, and he can do for himself. Therefore, you calling your parents to help him is a slap in the face. It is a bruise to his ego and manhood.

I suggest talking with him and listening to his experiences in life, and how it is for him. How does he view his life experience, and what are his challenges. Talk with him about money, what it means to him, and how he feels about it. Listening to your boyfriend about his life experiences and his family background will give you a better sense of his value of hard work, doing for himself, and being independent. Yes, you may have dated him since high school, and may know his family, but you don’t know the dynamics of his family situation. There is something he hasn’t shared with you or told you and why he has to work so hard, be independent, and earn his own money.

You are young, and you’ve had everything given to you so you are not aware of what it means to work hard, do for yourself, and be independent in the same sense as your boyfriend. Yes, you are independent and are away from home. You may take care of yourself, but at least you have the resources to call on your parents if something is to happen. Your boyfriend doesn’t have those resources. So, give him some time, and just sit and talk with him. Let him know you only wanted to help and offer some assistance. But, next time, if this situation arises, you two should talk and you ask him if he wants assistance or help. Let him know you are there for him, and you only want to be a support system for him and that it is okay to have assistance and help from time to time. It doesn’t mean he is incapable, or less of a man to have some help. It truly shows his power and courage to reach out to others for support. – Terrance Dean

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You better be ready to make it rain if you wanna live in these states…

The 12 Most Expensive States In America

Let’s face it. The United States of America might be the land of the free and the home of the brave, but to live in the most popular places that this country has to offer, you’re gonna need to cash out.

With that in mind, the good folks over at CNBC have put together a list of the top 12 most expensive states in America, and we’ve got the top 10 right here. Does your state top the list? Take a look…

Today in random ridiculousness….

Woman Plans To Have Surgery To Become A Paraplegic

Ever wanted to know what it was like to live life with no legs?!?!? Yeah, we haven’t either. But this woman did, and she even went to dangerous extremes to try and make her dreams of a leg-less life come true.

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Many people dread not being able to use their legs – but for one woman, it’s her dream come true.

Chloe Jennings-White suffers from a rare psychological condition known as Body Integrity Identity Disorder. An able-bodied 58-year-old woman, Jennings-White fantasizes about being a paraplegic and wants to undergo spinal surgery to make her legs stop working, The Sun reported.

Yearning for paralyzed legs, Jennings-White once purposefully pedaled her bike off a 4-foot stage, landing on her neck, The Sun said. After the incident, she realized she didn’t want to die, she only wanted to damage her legs.

An overseas doctor agreed to perform the surgery, in which he would cut her sciatic and femoral nerves. But the operation would cost her nearly $25,000.

“I’ll never be able to afford it, but I know I won’t regret it if I ever can, and I don’t know why it upsets people,” Jennings-White told The Sun.

Jennings-White, who currently uses a wheelchair to get around, said she first wanted to be disabled when she was only 4 years old. She had visited her aunt, who had been in an accident and was wearing leg braces.

“I wanted them too,” Jennings-White told The Sun. “I wondered why I wasn’t born needing them, and felt something was wrong with me because I didn’t have them.”

This bish is a certified nutcase.

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Does Love & Hip Hop ATL make you ashamed to be black?

Momma Dee Calls Out Wendy Williams

Via RumorFix reports:

One of the stars of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta is fuming because talk show host Wendy Williams recently said, “The show makes me embarrassed to be black.”

Momma Dee, who is Lil’ Scrappy’s mom, came to RumorFix to vent.

“Get the Hell off,” she says to Wendy through RumorFix, “You don’t know us b*tch.”

The outspoken mom is upset that Wendy has had some Real Housewives on her daytime show, but refuses to invite Momma Dee and her co-stars. “If you had us on the show you could get to know us,” she says. “You can fake and taint what you want — if you took time to have the cast on your show you’d know.”

In our explosive interview, Momma Dee chastised Wendy saying, “A cracker paid you to do your own show and you’re going to belittle us … Wendy you forgot where you came from!”

To be fair, Wendy admitted she is “fascinated” by the VH1 reality show, but doesn’t think the stars of the show represent all African-Americans.