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Ariana Grande, 21, and Big Sean can’t seem to get enough of each other! The songstress shared this photo of her and her boyfriend smiling giddily at each other in the back of an SUV riding through New York City with the simple caption ‘happiest’ late in the evening on December 14. This relationship is clearly the best she has ever been in, and she wants all her fans to know how content she is with her new man.

Ariana’s been doing an excellent job of balancing work and her personal life, hopping from stage-to-stage across the country on tour with the Jingle Ball show, recording tracks with Nicki Minaj, and filming new music videos, all while still finding time to connect one-on-one with her 26-year-old boyfriend Big Sean.

Right on the heels of her Madison Square Garden Jingle Ball performance on Friday December 12, the two ended up right back in each other’s arms in the back of this car — smiling and laughing together without a care in the world.

Ariana shared this adorable photo to her Instagram page on December 14. In fact, just hours after Ariana posted this picture the pair at their happiest, her beloved beau, Big Sean posted the same photo to his own Instagram account.

Ever since the musical duo began dating, they have been nearly inseparable — even working together whenever possible. Just last week, they took the KIIS FM Jingle Ball stage together for a sexy and sweet performance of their duet “Best Mistake” in Los Angeles.

However, the two will have to spend more time apart soon, as Big Sean is spending the rest of his week in NYC while Ariana makes more Jingle Ball appearances in Washington DC and Sunrise Florida later in the week.

Time apart sounds like a recipe for a swirly pregnancy.

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Dear Bossip,

I found out in November 2013 that my ex whom I had known for 6 ½ years got married to someone else in November 2011.

However, all the while he was still telling me he wanted to marry me and have children.

I met this man in 2006. At the time, we worked in the same community. We went out to lunch a couple of times and we talked over the phone. Eventually, he stopped calling me for six months which was not a problem because we were just associates. Plus, I explained to him that I was not interested in dating a guy with children and I got the feeling all he was looking for was sex because he asked me one evening if we could started dating because he had not had sex in so long he was about to exploded. I informed him it sounded like he was looking for a hooker not a girlfriend. He laughed, but he did not call again until 6 months later.

In 2008, I agreed to go on a date with him. After our second date, he started talking about marriage. I told him to slow down because we needed to get to know each other better. He told me he did not want to grow old alone. I admitted I had trust issues and I shared this information with this man. He appeared to be a nice guy and very attentive. He called to make sure I made it home. He opened doors. Most of my family and friends loved him.

However, my dad and my uncle (who was dying of terminal cancer) disliked him. My uncle even advised me that this man was not the one for me and that he was no good. I did not place much credence in my dad and uncle’s opinion because I believe it to be based on the fact that I am an attorney and my ex was a loss prevention officer at Target.

I had a very stressful job during this period and often worked late. My ex began to accuse me of being with other men and not working. He became paranoid that I was talking to his neighbor over the telephone. He stole my cell phone to check to see if I had contact with his neighbor. I broke off the communication. However, my ex explained that in past relationships his exes cheated on him.

Eventually, I gave him another chance. I assured him I was a one man type of woman. I told him that I loved him. But, I explained my work was important and that I needed my job. However, he continued to complain about my job and made remarks about me and my male co- workers.

In 2010, I decided to resign from my job because it became too stressful. And, I thought my resignation would make my ex happy. I took another less stressful position. I told him I loved him and that I wanted to meet his mom and children. He told me I would be able to meet his daughter, but not his son. I was curious about why I could not meet his son (I questioned my ex). But, I backed off because my ex had advised in the past that his son had accused him of not doing anything for him. I did not want to make my ex feel bad about the possible conflict with his son.

My ex began to distance himself at this point. So, I decided to talk with him about what I was sensing. I told him that I loved him, wanted to be his wife, and that I wanted to build a life which included having children. However, I let my ex know that if he had found someone else or if he did not love me anymore I would just move on and we could be friends. He was evasive and told me that I was being insecure and that if he had a woman she would be helping him with his bills.  He told me he loved me; but, he was having a hard time financially. I knew he changed jobs and was having to use family members’ vehicles or pay others to take him to work.

I did not see him much because he did not have transportation and he had money issues. I did not question this until he informed me that he would not be able to make it for Christmas holidays in 2011 (he knew this was important to me). He claimed that he was unable to get gifts. I told him gifts were not necessary that I just wanted to spend time with him. He claimed he could not borrow a vehicle to come up during the holiday. However, he got a vehicle prior to Thanksgiving holiday. He picked me up and I got a chance to briefly meet his mom. This was the first time I had seen here face-to-face (I had talked to her over the phone). However, his mom gave me a funny look. I asked my ex about this and he claimed his mom was legally blind.

I let him know I loved and wanted a future with him. I offered to help him work out his finances.  I encouraged him to starting his car detail business and to go to school for physical therapy. Yet, he seemed distant. In April 2012, he was seriously injured at work. He was out on worker compensation from that point on. He told me he moved in with his mom. During this period he called in the evenings. Often times, I would speak with his mom. However, he advised me that he could not stay with his mom forever because she lives in government housing. However, I did not get to see him often (he always said he did not have transportation).  I did not want to make him feel bad by pressuring him about not coming to my home (we lived about 2 hours apart).

We continued to be intimate throughout this period. In September 2012, he came up with money and went with me and my family on a cruise. I felt terrible about not trusting him because surely he would not introduce me to his mom and go on vacation with me if he were with another woman. I was wrong.

I could not shake the feeling he was not being honest. Ultimately, I found an identification card with a female name on it in a vehicle he told me belonged to his sister. I did not mention finding the ID. I checked the female and my ex name with the probate office in his county. I found out that my ex had been married to this lady in early November 2011 before I met his mom. He and his wife were staying with her grandmother.

I confronted him with this information. He denied it. When I showed him proof, he said, “I know what I did and I know who I am with now.” He said to me that his marriage had been annulled. I told him I did not believe him and I did not care. I asked for an apology. He accused me of never loving him and told me that all I wanted was for him to pay for dinner and movies. He accused me of turning my family against him by telling them he was married. He told me never to contact him again.

I feel so stupid because I let myself be used by this man. And, then he throws me away like trash. I have never opened up to or invited any other man to meet my family. I really loved him and denied what my gut was telling me…thinking it was just my trust issues. I don’t think I will ever be able to trust anyone again.

I feel something is wrong with me. I mean the woman he married is a convicted felon. She has two children by two different guys. One of her sons, the son’s father is in jail for life for armed robbery, and the other son is being raised by her mother who lives in a different state. What’s wrong with me? What did I do wrong? Is this just how men behave (maybe it’s the Venus/Mars effect)? I mean I bared my soul and share secrets with this man. I told this man how I felt about him, but never pressured him to feel the same or even say he loved me. But, he still lied. Why didn’t he apologize? Was that asking for too much?

My brother told me that I should be grateful because I avoided a bullet. He said that all men lie; but, he believes the denial to his face with the proof of his lies is a sign of mental issues.  But, he was a very considerate person in the beginning. At the end, he treated me cold, laughed at me and like I was an enemy. Any insight would be appreciated. – What Happened

Dear Ms. What Happened,

Your brother is right. You should be glad, grateful, and jumping over the moon that you dodged the bullet. Be thankful that you did not end up married, or pregnant by this fool. You should be excited and elated that you did not become his victim, and a part of his deception. He’s a liar. He’s a pathological liar at that.

Keep in mind that he has been and had been lying to you throughout your entire relationship. He kept you in the dark, and never once allowed you to get close to him. He kept you at a distance, and I hope you can see this now.  Notice that he didn’t want you to meet his mother. And, when you did it was very brief, on Thanksgiving, and you didn’t meet her again. Yet, you’ve been dating this man on and off for years, and you met his mother once, only in passing. That should have been a clue.

Then, he tells you that you can meet his daughter but not his son. Huh? You can’t meet his children, and then, you can only meet one of them and not together. Something isn’t right. He fed you a lie that his son accused him of not doing enough for him so there is tension. Okay, if he is not actively involved in his child’s life, then why would you want to be with a man like this anyway? And, I’m sure his son would have loved to spend some time with his dad. So, that was a lie. There was something else going on and he lied to you and you let it slide.

A man who is evasive about letting a woman meet his family, friends, and those who are important to him is hiding something. Never, never, never continue dating a man and you haven’t met his mother, family members, or his children. If he is keeping you from meeting his family it’s either because he has another woman whom the family knows him to be with. He’s married. Or, you are not the woman he is really serious about, and he is using you. He will tell you anything, come up with lies, and even make you feel paranoid or untrusting of him. It’s his tactic to keep you away from his personal intimate life. He’s hiding something. He’s lying to you. He’s deceiving you. End the relationship and get out!

But, I don’t understand why this man with a job has no car. He’s asking family members and friends to borrow their cars, yet, he can’t put a down payment on a car? He can’t find something to get around in? Then, when the holidays roll around all of a sudden he can’t get to you, or make allowances for the time to spend with you. He uses the excuse that he doesn’t have any transportation. Uhm, really? He knew the holidays were coming. Why not plan in advance?

It’s because he was already married, and he lied to you to keep up the charade, and he had to spend the holidays with his wife. Therefore, you were always the side chick. You were always the jump off. You dated a man who lived 2 hours away. He never had transportation to get to you. He always had money problems. He lost his job because of an injury and had to move in with his mother in government housing. But, you stated that you and he were still intimate. Now, if you were to reflect over this relationship, and notice the patterns, the conversations, and how I just picked apart his argument and his lies, then you will see that he was always leading you on. He was always deceptive, and manipulative. And, he kept you around for sex. You were not his girlfriend, but his side chick.

The fact that you caught him in his lies, confronted him with the evidence, and demanded some answers and an apology doesn’t surprise me that he would accuse you and attempt to turn the tables on you. He’s a wimp. A low life. He’s a scumbag. A man that is unable to face his lies, and not apologize for his behavior and what he’s done to you is not a man. He’s a boy. He’s unable to take responsibility for his actions, and the damage he’s caused to you. Therefore, be thankful you learned the truth. Be thankful you did not end up giving him more of yourself, and more of your life.

It’s time for you to heal, and move on, and to get into therapy. You should talk with someone who can help you as you move on, and talk this out with. You do not want to build a wall between yourself and other men. You can’t judge all men based on this loser’s actions. What he did is indicative of his behavior. Not all men are like this. Therefore, just know that you did nothing wrong. He was always a liar. He was always someone who was deceptive and manipulative. He has issues, and they have nothing to do with you. Do not beat yourself up, and do not take responsibility for his behavior and how he treated you. He was never faithful, honest, or trustworthy.

I would recommend in the future that you do not ignore your instincts and your gut feelings about men. When something is not adding up, or it doesn’t make sense, then interrogate, get answers, and demand the truth. Do not settle and do not dismiss your feelings. They are there to guide you and to help you. You gave this man many chances, and you knew something wasn’t right. Instead of holding on you should have stopped, reassessed the situation, got to the truth, and re-evaluated your relationship. Take this as a learning lesson. It was valuable to learn and now you know what to do, and what not to do in the next relationship. – Terrance Dean

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The Worst Celebrity Parenting Moments Of 2014

Parenting is really, really tough. But sometimes even the most basic rules get ignored. Sometimes it’s horrifying and sometimes it’s actually pretty funny. Don’t worry…some of these are harmless. Just enjoy the Lulz. <!–nextpage—>

Kim Kardashian - She cropped her own kid out of her selfie and it got slandered for the longest. Was it really that serious? <!–nextpage—>

Birdman - He won’t let Lil Wayne put out his album. That’s not a great way to be a daddy, Baby. <!–nextpage—>

Kim Kardashian Pt. 2 - Apparently she got caught leaving North West in a hotel, having to go back and bring her to the limo. <!–nextpage—>

Jada Pinkett-Smith - She told everyone to back off even when her daughter was in a bed with a 20-year-old. What do you think…?<!–nextpage—>

Mathew Knowles - He tried to sell a doggone Destiny’s Child movie based on their careers. Incredible. <!–nextpage—>

Halle Berry/Gabriel Aubry - They both get on the list for the way they’ve had their stupid feuds over their kids. It’s sort of out of hand, especially going to court over if she had product in her hair. <!–nextpage—>

Kris Jenner - She gets on the list all the time, now for shamelessly pumping her family for all the money they’re worth. <!–nextpage—>

Sherri Shepherd – Her ex-husband said she abandoned their kids and everything. <!–nextpage—>

Mimi - She made that adult flick and was proud of it…despite having a kid. <!–nextpage—>

Romeo’s Mom - He blasted her for being absent and wanting $67 million from Master P. <!–nextpage—>

Octomom - She was arrested and faces five years for welfare fraught…smh.

start some new traditions with your family!

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A “key” witness in the Darren Wilson grand jury is being exposed for being a lying, racist, bipolar felon who may not have even been on the scene when Michael Brown was murdered.

RawStory reports:

Grand jury “Witness 40,” whose testimony helped Officer Darren Wilson escape criminal charges in the fatal shooting of Michael Brown, has been revealed as a virulently racist St. Louis woman with serious credibility issues.

The Smoking Gun reported Monday that information gathered from the unredacted portions of the grand jury transcript had identified the witness as 45-year-old Sandra McElroy, a divorced mother of five who was diagnosed as bipolar as a teenager.

She admitted to grand jurors that she had pleaded guilty in 2007 to two counts of felony check fraud, and she also testified that she had suffered from memory problems since suffering serious head injuries in a 2001 car wreck.

The website, which reported that details from court records matched up with the background of the witness, described McElroy as a “fabulist” whose “law enforcement interviews are deserving of multi-count perjury indictments.”

McElroy first contacted police Sept. 11, four weeks after Wilson shot and killed the 18-year-old Brown during a confrontation – and after the officer’s version of events had been described in media accounts.

She had been commenting on the high-profile case for weeks through her Facebook account, telling another commenter Aug. 17 that an unspecified investigative report and the autopsy had “confirmed” that Brown’s hands were not raised, as the teen’s friend had claimed.

 

McElroy did not mention at that time that she had been present as a witness to the fatal shooting, The Smoking Gun reported.

She continued posting online comments after meeting with St. Louis police, such as making a sarcastic comment about Brown’s ancestors being owned as slaves 200 years ago.

McElroy was interviewed Oct. 22 – the day after the St. Louis Post-Dispatch published a lengthy account of Wilson’s version of events — at the FBI field office by an agent and two federal prosecutors.

She claimed she had driven 30 miles from her home to Ferguson to visit a high school friend she hadn’t seen in 26 years, but had no cell phone and an incorrect address, so she stopped to smoke a cigarette and ask directions from a black man standing beneath a tree.

That’s when she allegedly witnessed the fatal shooting unfold.

McElroy’s account closely backed the police version of events, claiming that Brown repeatedly punched Wilson during a confrontation and then turned and fled as Wilson fired his gun.

So these are the types of witnesses who got Darren Wilson off??? They can NOT be serious!

NBA Baller Lou Williams Has Two Girlfriends

We’ve seen plenty of athletes with two girlfriends. That’s nothing new. But how many athletes have you seen with multiple girlfriends who know about each other? Lou Williams is an NBA player who has two girlfriends he calls “Brown” and “Blonde” and they’re all happy together. Well, that’s incredible. Want to see more of these women? Of course you do.

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Model Says Bill Cosby Drugged Her And Licked Her Toes

Via RadarOnline reports:

A 24-year-old model/exotic dancer named Chloe Goins has made the first accusation against the 77-year-old comic that falls within the statute of limitation, claiming the 80s sitcom king drugged and sexually assaulted her at the Playboy Mansion six years ago, during the summer of 2008.

Goins, who was 18 at the time of the alleged attack, told MailOnline she intends to inform authorities of the incident, in which she claims Cosby secretly put a sedative in her drink before taking her into a bedroom at the famed property, where he was licking her feet while pleasuring himself.

Goins told the outlet she went with a friend to a Playboy party and was “quickly introduced” to Hugh Hefner when they arrived at about 11 p.m.; soon, Cosby made his way to say hello.

“I kind of recognized him from TV, I know he was on a TV show where he played a family guy, but he was a little bit before my time,” Goins said. “Hef introduced him as his good friend, they seemed really close.

“He seemed like a really nice guy, really funny … we were talking, laughing and having fun.

Goins said Cosby gave her a glass of vodka, and soon after “everything kind of went a little foggy,” and she “started feeling sick to [her] stomach and just dizzy.”

“Someone spiked my drink, I have no doubt about that, it was my first drink of the night,” Goins said.

Hefner offered Goins a place to lie down, she said, at which point “Bill offered to show me the room, he said he knew the way.

“He seemed nice and I don’t remember feeling nervous or that it was weird. He had his arm around me to show me the way and I did notice he had been paying me a little more attention than my friend, but never thought anything of it.”

Goins said she awoke out of a daze, naked, to see Cosby “licking and kissing” her toes, while playing with himself with his pants around his ankled.

“He was at my feet … and I think he bit my toe as that’s what woke me up,” she said. “I kind of thank God for that because that’s what woke me up and I came to.”

Goins said as she awoke from the stupor, she asked Cosby what was going on, and “he didn’t really say anything, didn’t explain anything or give a reason.

“He jumped up, pulled his pants back up quickly and left. He had seen that I was alert and bolted out of there, I was left in the room by myself.”

Thinking that Cosby had licked her all over — based on moisture on her person — Goins said she’d felt “violated and humiliated” in the wake of the incident.

“I can’t be 100% sure what he did to me, I was completely out of it,” she said. “I was scared, I was just 18 and he was an old man, I was not very sexually experienced and I didn’t really know what had happened, it was violating.”

Goins said she declined to inform officials about what had happened at first, out of fear for her future.

“I didn’t want to get in trouble and maybe ruin my modeling career,” she said. “Bill Cosby was on TV and had a family man image, I thought to hurt that, he would come after me, try to ruin me.”

Goins said that support from friends and the power in numbers after others have stepped forward, have convinced her that the time is right.

“Unlike many of those women, I don’t think he raped me so I am one of the lucky ones, but at the same time it was a f***ed up situation,” Goins said.

Hefner, in the wake of the scandal, said he “would never tolerate this kind of behavior” at his home, and that “the mere thought of these allegations is truly saddening.”

Cosby was also implicated in another incident at the Playboy Mansion, drugging and sexually assaulting a 15-year-old girl named Judy Huth in 1974.

Should he be convicted of sexual assault under California law? Cosby could face up to a maximum of 48 months in custody.

The Absolute BEST Of #AskACop

We’ve seen some cringe-worthy hashtag decisions over the years (#AskRKelly? WHY?), but CNN’s shameless #AskACop might be the worst of them all, at the worst possible time, as protests against police brutality intensify across the nation.

Hit the flip for a must-see collection of #AskACop tweets.

Karrueche Posts Subliminal Message About Break Up With Chris Brown On Instagram

R&B crooner Chris Brown and his girlfriend Karrueche recently called it quits yet again and while the “break-up-to-make-up” dance is certainly one that we’ve seen from them numerous times, Kae seems to be adamant about standing her ground this time around.

Just a few days after Karrueche was quick to make it clear that she and Breezy are NOT back together despite rumors of a reunion after they were seen hanging out separately in the same places, she took to her Instagram page with this fitting quote that seems to speak volumes to their situation:

It’s not hard to believe that Karrueche is fed up with Chris’ shenanigans given all that they’ve been through and it sounds like she just might be done giving him more chances to get his ish together. Poor dat.

Big Sean returned to The Breakfast Club and offered some insight into his forthcoming new album and his relationship with Pop Princess Ariana Grande…Continue.

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8-Year-Old Boy Raises $1 Million For His Friend With Rare Liver Disease

A young boy who set out to help his friend through a rare liver disease at the age of 6 has now raised $1 million dollars towards the selfless cause.

via AOL News

Back in 2012, a then-6-year-old boy wrote a book to raise money for his best friend, who has a rare liver condition. Well, that book has just surpassed $1 million in sales.

“I like to go to the beach, that is so chocolate bar,” Jonah Pournazarian said in an NBC interview.

“I like to go swimming, that is so chocolate bar,” Dylan Siegal said.

That was Dylan Siegel, who is now 8 years old, and his friend, 9-year-old Jonah Pournazarian, reading from Dylan’s book, aptly named “Chocolate Bar.” Dylan says to him, chocolate bar means “awesome.”

Jonah is just one of 500 children in the world with glycogen storage disease type 1b. KABC reports every few hours he has to be fed a mixture of water and cornstarch through a tube in his stomach.

Kudos to this young man!

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Tasha Smith Files For Divorce

Remember when we told you about Tasha Smith’s marital messy woes varying from her husband accusing her of being gay to him filing a restraining order against her???

Well she’s officially putting an end to their matrimonydom and paying a hefty price for it.
TMZ reports:

Actress Tasha Smith has jumped from filing a restraining order against her estranged husband … to slapping him with divorce papers … and right off the bat it’s costing her a bundle of cash.

The “Why Did I Get Married?” star sought the split after she and Keith Douglas filed dueling TROs against each other — and since she’s the bread winner in the family … the judge is making her pay him $50k in spousal support up front.

We broke the stories … a judge ordered Smith to stay a bizarre 2 yards away from Douglas — while they were estranged, but still shacking up in the same house. A week later she filed similar docs to get protection from him.

They’ll be back in court next month for the restraining orders. As for the $50k payment — we’re told that’s just to hold Douglas over until a permanent support agreement is hammered out in divorce court.

Tyler Perry and his ‘WDIGM?’ writers should be taking notes.

Poor thang!

What do YOU think about Tasha Smith ending her marriage???